The following is a submission by Callum Saunders, from Glossop, England. Throughout the year we’ll feature different stories that have been selected to be part of our book. This is Ruby.

There are many stories I could tell you about Ruby. And many different ways in which I could tell you those stories. But after several weeks of gestation, I kept circling back to one driving force: the only way to truly tell her story from my own perspective, is through the lens of an old photograph. How a visual image triggers a written story, is less an irony, and more a confluence of currents.

And as those currents started to become words flowing from my fingertips, it became clear that I wasn’t writing ‘a story’ about Ruby, but more how her story continues to move through me today; how I see, navigate and sense a world of memories all around me, whenever I am back at the family home. Perception, space and time, dance up against each other in mysterious ways.

And the flow of Ruby’s energy can still be felt today.

I found a box pf photographs the other day. Real, physical photographs; glossy, tactile and wonderful. Even the most innocuous of images feels somehow more meaningful when it is committed to physical print.

One of these photographs was slightly bent in one corner, where it had clearly been squashed into the box. I picked it up and looked upon it, instantly transported back to a time and place as the beauty of what it captured drew me in.

The landscape is the Sussex Downs, right behind my mother’s house, up high on chalky downland that has curved and undulated for millennia. I am laying prone on the grass, giving a lower sense of perspective. The midpoint of the photo is the horizon, where the warm chalky earth meets a pastel sky. My three siblings are there, walking up hilly tussocks, towards an eternal July evening. I can feel their motion, and hear their chatter, right now.

In the foreground, plodding after them, is a black shadow with four legs. To say she is shapeless is not intended as factual, but a reflection of her age; the glossy contours of a Labrador’s prime long-gone.

There is no specific symbolism behind this particular photograph; no occasion beyond the very scene it captures. It merely frames a moment in time, when four siblings had managed to come back home together at the same time, and felt as if we had the Sussex Downs to ourselves on an evening when heaven and earth are seemingly fused as one.

And it’s this singular image that evokes everything that Ruby was to me. Her loyal following and slow gait; her subtle yet ever-present presence; her inquisitive and loving eyes. Her happiness just laying somewhere, being with her family, and taking in the world around her, seemingly on a time continuum slower than our own. I often see parts of my own personality in hers: the humanity of a dog is never to be underestimated.

The English poet Edward Thomas, penned a poem in 1914 titled, ‘The Unknown’. And within this, three lines have always struck me:

“The simple lack of her
Is more to me
Than other’s presence.”

I look upon the garden on warm summer days, and gaze longingly at the same patch of grass where she lay in her final years. Silent, content, and immovable, she was a black rock: steadfast and true, in the humming, pulsing rhythm of an English garden in August. Her ashes are buried right behind it, and feed a rose we bought for the occasion – a variety named Ruby (what else) – but it’s that patch of warm, baked earth, rather than the blooms her ashes send forth every year, that sings to me and speaks to my soul. ‘The simple lack of her, is more to me, than other’s presence’.

At the family dinner table, I can almost feel her head upon my thigh; Labradors and the eternal optimism of a tidbit from the table. How strange it is, that she has been gone all these years, and yet my soul still has the muscle memory to outline the shape of her head with my hands; to still know the very weight of that old head as it plodded down upon your leg.

As I move through the family home, there are tens of different spaces, worn patches, scratches, chewed baskets, that still tell her tale to those that knew her, and can read the inscriptions. Her story is not reimagined and retold in the minds of those who knew her. It’s there in physical space, while time dances around it.

‘The simple lack of her, is more to me, than other’s presence.’

As I look at this photograph now, I can feel her heat in dusty whispers.

My Ruby.

Author: Callum Saunders

2 replies
  1. June McAvoy
    June McAvoy says:

    This touched my heart and I remember my beloved Gone Dogs in just those ways. The simple lack of each one is more to me than other’s presence.Thank you, Callum.

  2. Pam Desloges
    Pam Desloges says:

    Dear Mr. Saunders,
    You have written a heartwarming and true expression of how it feels to lose a beloved dog. Thank you for sharing it.


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